INTERVIEW #21: FEATURING AMBER MARTINEZ

What is culture? – To me – a shared set of experiences and the values-driven from those experiences. What’s it worth? Whelp – mostly usually oppression lol factually speaking of course. The fun parts are- lots of times- food, shared music, song, and art, some interesting stories, unique yet athletic or sports-like games, and then there’s government and religion – aforementioned. Latinos, who are we? What is our culture? How many of us are there? & who “Counts?  We are but one people separated by constructed privileges, a couple of oceans and rivers, and connected by technology and we all love el Conejo malo (I don’t care what you say). Further, our Latino culture is shared by people whose experiences span such polarized degrees of privilege- that it blows my mind. How much keen injustice exists within the culture I wonder? Factually injustice in this country and (others) is so, that I can have the very same name, the very same everything as another woman but if by a randomized act of God, she is born outside of the United States, and our lives are measured differently. Same name kept I am a citizen and she’s not two different social realities – that’s undeniable. There is a girl whose last name is Rodriguez (same as mine) sitting in a cell somewhere because she was born on the WRONG side of an invisible line or the tracks and had the common sense to run for it. Is that fair?  Is it my culture to accept that? It’s the way the numbers work that I’m on the outside and she’s on the inside. The scary thing of all is – we might even have the same dreams. Maybe even agree on religion and like the same food. But because it benefits some folx- they try to make it seem like me and her – we don’t have the same culture and trick me into wanting to lock her up. Nope. Not I. When I close my eyes the days, I feel the worst for myself I close my eyes and think about that girl. I won’t support “culture” that doesn’t count such women and me in the same deck. Just cus I’m half white and born in the United States doesn’t make me more deserving of liberty – the way that I see it. You’ve got to believe in liberty to be brave – because if not- what are you fighting for? Who are brave people in a culture? Brave people ask themselves that too. And the bravest of all, answer their question in the worst way- in a way that causes them to have to act. Amber Martinez is brave and complicated. She is a leader because she creates community (whose foundation is coalition building) – which itself is a challenging enterprise. Why do some build communities? Answering for myself – because they know the feeling of being alone. Anyone who can make It is the small-town USA and the city has got my respect. You’ve got to two have two different types of Moxy – on call- for both the country and the city in New York State, Amber’s got them. The type of “gotem” that made her a welcome guest in Croatia -finding herself making friends she could keep for a lifetime, a million miles away from home and impromptu ambassador for the Latino community. After 20 years or so in Buffalo she calls her home. What is her business? She is one of the co-curators of the brand La Kultura in her words “we chose that name for what it means: The Culture”. Explaining: “We are one and we will be the ones to set the tone for what creating unity looks like.” Amber Martinez- Her role? to unify communities around spaces centered around freedom of identity. Freedom of identity, the freedom to shed your culture born or not and or to assume another, to leave freer than before, if you so choose. THE INTERVIEW: Read Amber’s Interview, follow her brand, and accept we are all in constant states of transformation and growth and that’s part of our culture too. Where were you born and what values were taught in your home? Well, I was born in a small town in NY with my mother and brother. Some of the values that stick out at a young age are respect, discipline, and responsibility.     What was your experience like as a student?  My college experience was interesting. When I first went to college, my first semester was a realization that I was not ready or prepared for what college had in store. By my second semester, I dropped out and started my first full-time job at DD. It took 4 years to find my way back into college. I started back up at ECC and graduated with my associate’s degree in Liberal Arts. By this time, I took a year off to focus on a sales position. After the year, I decided to sign back up for school and started my journey to receive my bachelor’s degree in Business Administration. It was a little hard connecting with other students at that time because I was 5 – 6 years older than the students in my class. I decided before I graduated, that I wanted to do an abroad program to meet people with the same interests. At first, I was denied for abroad programs. Then I took an International Marketing class, and the professor was promoting an abroad Spring break trip to Croatia. I wasn’t convinced but signed up anyway. I ended up being accepted into the program during my last semester in college. Long story short, it was a life-changing experience and that opportunity helped me develop relationships with the students on that trip whom I still speak to, even in today’s light of life.     What was your first job? My first job out of high school was with Dunkin Donuts (DD). Working

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DEALING WITH TRAUMA, Part 2

In the last edition of this column, I promised tools and strategies on how to manage and heal from trauma.  Reflecting on how trauma has pervaded across communities and families has prompted me to alter my course of prose to further educate and thus place us all in a better place to deal with trauma in our lives, workplaces, schools, and families. There is indeed individual trauma but also scientists have agreed that generational, intergenerational, and historical trauma exists, and the effects can be devastating to not only those afflicted but our society. Consideration for this serious vein of research has prompted this education on how trauma affects us first with the strategies to manage trauma symptoms to follow. Science reveals that trauma can be passed down from one trauma survivor to another. It can affect descendants more than one generation apart. It can also be referred to as transgenerational or multigenerational trauma. People experiencing intergenerational trauma may experience symptoms, reactions, patterns, and emotional and psychological effects from trauma experienced by previous generations. These previous generations are not limited to just parents and grandparents. They experience trauma symptoms and trauma responses from events that did not occur to them; rather, the response is inherited genetically. Those affected by intergenerational trauma might experience symptoms like post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), including anxiety, hypervigilance, stress reactions, and mood disorders.  However, because the individual did not directly experience the trauma themselves, they will not experience flashbacks or intrusive memories. Stress responses are linked to more physical complaints, intergenerational trauma can also manifest as medical issues including heart disease, stroke, or early death.  If our parents or grandparents experienced trauma, their DNA coded itself to have a survival response that helped them get through those events, which then passed down through generations.  This “survival mode” remains encoded and passed down for multiple generations in the absence of additional trauma. Some genes are dormant when we are born but activate based on our environment. When we experience trauma, our DNA responds by activating genes to help us survive stressful circumstances.  These genes stay activated to assist us in future dangerous situations. We then pass these genes onto our offspring to prepare them for possible traumatic events. When genes are primed for stressful or traumatic events, they respond with greater resilience to those events, but this constant state of anticipating danger is stressful. The trade-off of being constantly prepared to keep us safe increases our body’s stress levels and impacts our mental and physical health over time. Read More From This Columnist / Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Community Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Military & Veterans Peace People Politics CALL FOR ARTISTS! July 5, 2023/No CommentsRead More UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA June 5, 2023/No Comments In contemporary society, we hear the term PTSD for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder very often. This is the new buzzword or Read More INVESTING IN OURSELVES: UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA May 2, 2023/No Comments Depression & anxiety are common problems that can develop after trauma.  Depression ignites feelings of sadness and low mood. These Read More Load More End of Content.

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A CHALLENGE TO THE HISPANIC WOMEN’S LEAGUE

“The mission of the Hispanic Women’s League is to improve the quality of life, assist in personal and professional development, and advocate for the concerns of the Hispanic woman.” Dear Hispanic women’s league:  why not establish a health committee to come to the aid of deserving Latinas in need of medical assistance? We have noticed several of your members become ill and left alone to deal with medical issues… Latina sisters, especially those that are always giving and involved in community organizations, get very little support when they fall ill with a serious, threatening medical situation. We would love to see the Hispanic Women’s League (HWL) establish a fundraising health committee to assist their sister members with health issues. It’s an idea that should be explored. The Latino human infrastructure in our community already has the monetary system to provide financial donations. — HHC, PRACA, Bell Center, HUB, plus a challenge to individual community leaders to donate on an annual basis, whatever they decide to donate. They can begin with the present situation with several of your members experiencing health issues. It sounds complicated, but it’s a very simple initiative and structure to organize. The difficult part is the human willingness, commitment, and passion to care. COMMUNITY LEADERS AND THEIR ORGANIZATIONS SHOULD EXPLORE THIS IDEA. THEY COME TOGETHER TO ASSIST EXTERNAL AFFAIRS, SO WHY NOT COME TOGETHER TO ASSIST WITH OUR INTERNAL AFFAIRS? Just recently, during the “Grease Pole Festival”, Assemblyman Jon Rivera issued a check of three hundred thousand dollars to the Pucho Social Club for their “good service to the community.” Just recently, during the “Grease Pole Festival”, Assemblyman Jon Rivera issued a check of three hundred thousand dollars to the Pucho Social Club for their “good service to the community.” Reach out to these groups and have them help. What are these community groups for?  That is the least HWL can do for our LATINA SISTERS. In situations like this, it’s our turn to come to their assistance. The Buffalo Latino Village commits to contributing annually —if a health committee is established. We don’t need to beg outside groups to help jumpstart this project. We can do that ourselves. After that, HWL can solicit financial support and contributions from the public and private sectors.  In the future, if properly planned, HWL can have its own public or private “Latina Mutual Society”, available to any citizen, Latinoa or non-Latinoa, who needs assistance or help, including in cases of disasters, like Hurricane Maria. If the Puerto Rican Social Club and the Hispanic Heritage Council can get money from their political and corporate friends, it should not be that hard for HWL to entertain this idea. Use your community contacts. Come on HWL! Take the lead and become the pioneer in making this project a reality.  The community would love you for it… and so will your Latina members.   ____________________________________________ This editorial was inspired by the number of Latina sisters we see on Facebook requesting assistance with their medical or health issues, not able to raise the necessary funds to pay the high cost of medical treatment.  ____________________________  Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books Business Community Education Entertainment Food & Culture Health Interviews Military & Veterans Peace People Politics LATINO COLLEGE STUDENTS FACE INEQUALITY AND CULTURAL ISOLATION AT THE STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK at BUFFALO March 25, 2023/No Comments LACK OF COLLEGE SERVICES FOR LATINO STUDENTS: This is in response to a story by UB Spectrum reporter, Kayla Estrada, Read More “GETTING VERY LITTLE FOR THE WHOLE,  BUT GETTING A LOT FOR THE FEW” WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN 2023 January 25, 2023/No Comments While I might appear to be biased and selective, I strongly feel the four people in the photo are the Read More The Isaías González-Soto Branch Library (formerly Niagara Branch) is a member of the Buffalo & Erie County Public Library System December 25, 2022/No Comments When the Hispanic Heritage Council (HHC) moved to rename the Niagara Branch Library several years ago, with the support of Read More Load More End of Content.

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