MY UNCLE, MY WAR HERO

I’ve always wondered why war heroes are so greatly important in our modern society today. As I have grown up, I have learned and was welcomed by a prime example to have a response to those same inquiries, my uncle, Carmen S. Turchiarelli. Carmen was not born in the US, he stepped into American soil at age five. What puzzles me is the fact that he returned the call of offering himself as a draft pick without any hesitation, as a 19-year-old boy! He was barely a man at that age and certainly had much to lose being that he had the wealth of family by his side. It’s quite easy for the average human to be able to verbally commit and tell themself that they are devoted to achieving a matter so dangerous. To play the part of the character that willingly leaves their family, friends, and whatever milestones of their past in the environment that they once called home, it’s much more difficult than described. Behind that, I was most intrigued by the aspect that Carmen had no consideration for the idea of fighting for his new country of now 14 years; it was no trouble for him to have at least a moment to process the crucial offer, he dove right in headfirst even if it was not his birthplace.  After enlisting, he was hit with what one would call a bomb. He was informed of the possibility that he might have to face the Italian army. Carmen was not at all even the least fazed by the idea of going to war with his former countrymen.  He simply dismissed the possibility and proceeded forward into the battle of warfare. However, luckily, he did not have to confront that possibility. Instead, he was racked with his first introduction of combat experience, fighting against German soldiers in one of World War II’s significant battles — D-Day, the United States’ invasion of Normandy on June 6, 1944.  As a 13-year-old student-athlete, I still, to this very day, cannot comprehend the sacrifices that my uncle made as a soldier. And for what reason? America was not his mother country, and he was not born or raised in the United States. Why would he be willing to possibly sacrifice his life? As his military experience intensified, along with training, and demonstrating bravery, he was sent to the battlefield in record time. He was a member of the 1st Infantry Division, formally known as the “Big Red One”, giving him a clear run of the use of the Bazooka, shooting down several German tanks in the “Battle of Hürtgen Forest”, a battle where many of our American boys lost their lives.   Men in his Division described him as a brave soldier, coming to the rescue and saving countless lives. This earned him the Silver Star. Later on, he was also awarded a Bronze Star for his continued bravery and service to this country.  It takes quite a buildup of skillfulness to take charge in the fearfulness of a battlefield, knowing that you can get killed, but the hero pushes on, moving forward, fighting for his adopted country, and protecting the lives of his men; coming home, with the memories of the servicemen that died, not coming back home, and not forgetting the lives one had to take on the other side. My uncle is my hero. I will do my best to keep his memory alive, to advocate on his behalf, reminding people of this American heroism, my uncle.  Note: The 1st Infantry Division’s nickname, the “Big Red One,” originated from the division’s insignia, a large red number “1” on a khaki field. This nickname was adopted during World War 1 when the 1st was the first American division to arrive in France. (Source: Internet: History on the Net, https://www.historyonthenet.com/1st-infantry-division). Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports THE SCHOOLS CONTRAST NIGHT AND DAY December 20, 2023/1 Comment As of this year of 2023, for 2 years of grade levels, I have attended quite an unhealthy student environment… Read More

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Mindful Methods to Build Resilience – Part 1

The cultivation of calm, clarity, optimism, and happiness is not only doable but can prove to be inviting. All of us can achieve this one moment at a time. Nurture resilience and joy not by blocking whatever may be difficult, but through acknowledgment, acceptance, and appreciation. Where we place our attention makes a difference and can be the way to turn obstacles into success! I hope that you learn one-minute methods to turn self-doubt and negative thinking into affirmations of your abilities one minute at a time in this series.   How important is a minute? How many minutes did you pay attention to today, even before reading this? Did the little in-between moments slip by unnoticed because you were caught in distraction?  Or were your minutes populated by thoughts of worrisome stories or fears? Did you ever stop to think how a single minute, this very next minute, holds the potential to change the direction of your thoughts, and your life? How can these next 60 seconds act as a storehouse of resilience to help you bounce back from daily challenges, difficulties, and hardships?  No one among us is immune to life’s challenges. To live with a human body and mind means having to confront grief, loss, disappointment, frustration, and even illusion. While you cannot always control the cards you are dealt in life, you can decide how best to play your hand – in this upcoming minute. How you respond to life’s stumbling blocks and hurdles right here, right now, in the next 60 seconds can make all the difference. Where and how you use your awareness in this next minute determines the very quality of your life- your ability to live joyfully, to accept the present conditions of the precious life you have, and to bounce back from life’s most challenging obstacles. The positive, supportive, and life–changing possibilities inherent in the next minute are infinite. In one minute, you can utilize the astounding power of your attention to sharpen your focus in new ways that bring contentment, clarity happiness, and optimism. This is the core foundation of resilience. Resilience would be nearly impossible if you were constantly upset, irritated, irrational, and beset by a host of negative feelings.  Calm is the magic elixir that brings you to a place of balance, harmony, and peace. It is from this emotionally centered point of view that you are more prepared and capable of making compassionate, caring, and sensible choices for yourself and others. Check us out next month for several one-minute strategies and tips! Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports FORGET THOSE NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS! January 1, 2024/3 Comments As another year during one of the most challenging times in history draws to a close, it may be time… Read More AFFIRMATIONS: WHAT ARE THEY? December 18, 2023/1 Comment Affirmations are phrases or statements that, when you repeat them regularly (either out loud or to yourself), can shift negative… Read More MEDICINAL MUSHROOMS October 4, 2023/3 Comments In this edition, I hope to educate and inform about medicinal mushrooms, specifically about lion’s mane mushrooms. Lion’s mane mushrooms,… Read More Load More End of Content.

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BRIDGING DIVIDES: CHALLENGES IN UNITY WITHIN BUFFALO’S LATINO COMMUNITY

It has been well over a year since I returned to Buffalo New York, after spending the previous twelve years in Florida and as started to reconnect myself with the Latino community here in Buffalo since I moved back, I’ve noticed how divided we are as a whole. Buffalo and Western New York are home to a vibrant Puerto Rican and Latino community, but my observations suggest a concerning disconnection among its various segments. Instead of uniting for a common goal, one that demands a seat at the political and social tables other groups have worked hard to maintain, the separate groups that represent various segments of the Latino community seem to be vying for sole recognition and influence. This observation of course raises questions. Is this Disconnection by Design? One pressing question is whether the disconnection within the Latino community is intentional. Are there underlying forces at play that contribute to the fragmentation? Understanding the dynamics behind this disunity is crucial to addressing the root causes and fostering a more cohesive community. One could argue that some groups, such as the Hispanic Heritage Council, being politically connected has worked in its favor, whereas others have been scrapping by for a piece of the proverbial pie.  Much of my observations were echoed in a full page “Three Kings Day Wish List” printed in this very publication just in last month’s edition of the Buffalo Latino Village where publisher Alberto Cappas proposed several gifts such as: Amory Heritage: More Support from the Puerto Rican community leadership. El Batey Puerto Rican Center: News coverage for all the wonderful work they do in Buffalo’s Puerto Rican community. El Buen Amigo: A shared piece of the HHC 14 plus millions to complete El Buen Amigo construction Hispanics United of Buffalo: A program to protect the lambs from the wolves across the street. Progressive Puerto Ricans/Latinos: Stop attending out-of-town workshops and rallies, and begin to dedicate time to the politics and conditions of your community Lower West Side Puerto Rican/Latino Restaurants: Join forces as a West Side Latino Restaurants Association, unite in purchasing your goods together, and save money, show appreciation to your customers by offering annual scholarships to their kids, and support your community organizations. These are but a handful of the gift ideas proposed by Alberto and reviewing these, it’s a telling sign of the lack of an organized communal vision our community has. While it’s essential to recognize the diversity within the Buffalo Latino community, acknowledging that it is not a monolith, it’s equally important to identify shared goals. Many individuals and groups within our community strive for better representation and a meaningful seat at the table. The challenge lies in aligning these diverse aspirations toward a collective vision for the community’s future. Representation at the Table: Who Speaks for Us? One of the core issues contributing to the disconnection is the question of representation. Buffalo-based Latino politicians and politically backed organizations play a role in shaping the narrative, but there are concerns about whose interests they truly represent. Additionally, smaller grassroots organizations, diligently working to address community needs, often struggle to gain the visibility and recognition they deserve. I touched on this in a previous column, about the lack of local media attention given to our stories, however, the lack of representation in local media, spreading a positive and uplifting message needs to be continually repeated. Navigating Political Agendas: Looking at the community and the needs of those who live within it, one cannot help but turn their attention to those who are elected to represent the community itself and whether they are doing the community any justice. It isn’t a surprise to acknowledge that most if not all politicians elected to office to represent a community bring their agendas to the table. Many times, more often than not, these agendas may not always align with the broader community’s needs, and as one who has been an observer of sorts over the last fifteen months, this seems to be the case with the politicians that represent the Latino Community of Buffalo on the citywide and statewide level. Overlooking Grassroots Efforts: Amid political maneuvering, the invaluable contributions of smaller grassroots organizations such as El Batey, the Hispanic Women’s League, and Raices Theater Company often go unnoticed. These organizations, driven by a genuine commitment to community welfare, cultural and artistic education, personal and professional development, or economic empowerment face challenges in breaking through to a larger audience and securing the recognition they need to make a substantial impact due to the lack of what can be perceived to be political support. Although I commend the Hispanic Heritage Council for the work that is being done on the Lower West Side, specifically with the building of the cultural center on Niagara Street, I wish the wealth were shared with other organizations who are also doing good things within the community but may lack in the political capital. Building Bridges for a Stronger Future: Ironically, the Peace Bridge sits on Buffalo’s West Side connecting Buffalo to our Canadian neighbors, yet we need a bridge of sorts to connect our community. Addressing the disconnection within Buffalo’s Latino community requires a collective effort. It involves fostering open dialogue, understanding diverse perspectives, and recognizing the contributions of all segments, especially the often-overlooked grassroots organizations mentioned above.  By building bridges, promoting unity, and acknowledging our disconnect, our community can work toward a future where every voice is heard, and every organization plays a vital role in shaping its destiny for years and generations ahead. — Until next time. Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports RESILIENCE AMIDST TRAGEDY: ONE YEAR LATER, REFLECTING ON THE BUFFALO CHRISTMAS BLIZZARD OF 2022 January 1, 2024/6 Comments As the Christmas season ends and a New Year is upon us, I can’t help but reflect on the difference…

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