My Community Observation

Community Vision: I would love to see “real” Latino educators and leaders in our community. We have too many Kool-Aid educators who graduate from higher education but leave their intelligence behind. We have too many religious groups associated with local politicians. There is too much social decay. I would love to see honesty and integrity in the people that are supposed to lead us into the future. They take us in the wrong direction while they move forward in the “right” direction for themselves. We need to move toward self-reliance, self-sufficiency, and commitment to business and economic development, and we need to stop relying on social services as we already have an overdose of this political and social drug — we are feeding the body, but we are not feeding the mind. Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books Business Community Education Entertainment Food & Culture Health Interviews Military & Veterans Peace People Politics LATINO COLLEGE STUDENTS FACE INEQUALITY AND CULTURAL ISOLATION AT THE STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK at BUFFALO March 25, 2023/No Comments LACK OF COLLEGE SERVICES FOR LATINO STUDENTS: This is in response to a story by UB Spectrum reporter, Kayla Estrada, Read More “GETTING VERY LITTLE FOR THE WHOLE,  BUT GETTING A LOT FOR THE FEW” WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN 2023 January 25, 2023/No Comments While I might appear to be biased and selective, I strongly feel the four people in the photo are the Read More The Isaías González-Soto Branch Library (formerly Niagara Branch) is a member of the Buffalo & Erie County Public Library System December 25, 2022/No Comments When the Hispanic Heritage Council (HHC) moved to rename the Niagara Branch Library several years ago, with the support of Read More Load More End of Content.

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DEALING WITH TRAUMA, Part 1

Trauma can cause difficulties in functioning.  Trauma results when extraordinary shocking, distressful, and frightening situations and events dislodge our sense of feeling safe and cause us to endure feelings of helplessness. In other words, our worlds are shattered, and our normal coping strategies no longer work and uplift us.  Our disturbing memories replay repeatedly, and traumatized individuals suffer as they attempt to control these images and thoughts.  Effects can become evident in anxiety, startle responses, feeling numb, addiction, substance abuse, nightmares, feeling disconnected from others and severe trust issues towards other people, relationship concerns, knee-jerk violent reactions, and isolation. Our past experiences cannot be changed. However, we can heal from them and evolve into a new, yet altered, and often improved version of ourselves. Healing from trauma is possible. Trauma may enter us through horrific, challenging experiences, and negative emotions. A troubling echo of an agonizing moment can plague us in what feels like an irreversible way. Witnessing, watching, hearing, and personal experiences can be traumatic. Trauma is not based on individual subjective emotions tied to an event, but on the intensity of negative emotions swirling around and felt by the person who endured the experience. We are all unique creations; thus, identical experiences can have different effects on different people. The depth of trauma may be at one level for you, but not for everyone. We all identify accidents, injuries, violent attacks, partner violence, medical surgeries, rape, natural disasters, combat in war, emotional and physical abuse as well as living in a high-crime community where enduring threats are continuous or life-threatening illnesses as causes of trauma. Other causes of trauma are not readily recognized in our society. When a loved one passes on, we can be traumatized. Relationships ending that we have invested much into can be trauma-inducing. Enduring humiliation, deliberate cruelty, and severe disappointing experiences are also sources of trauma. Nor do we have to have a front-row seat to trauma to be adversely impacted by it. Exposure to massacres, and childhood abuse including those falling under the umbrella of adverse childhood experiences (ACE), terrorist attacks, airplane crashes, and other new channels of exposure to people being harmed on social media, our phones, and our TVs can tax our nervous systems.  While healing ignites when an individual accepts what has happened and ventures to recover, regaining a sense of safety may take weeks or years. Healing from trauma is not a cookie-cutter adventure. Investing in healing modalities that feel right will bring an individual to a better place after enduring trauma.  After all, we are all indeed limitless!  I suggest we all invest in ourselves and practice self-awareness and self-care. The sky is the limit! Please read the next edition for some tried and true strategies and tools to try out when healing from any type of traumatic event.  Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Community Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Military & Veterans Peace People Politics CALL FOR ARTISTS! July 5, 2023/No CommentsRead More UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA June 5, 2023/No Comments In contemporary society, we hear the term PTSD for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder very often. This is the new buzzword or Read More INVESTING IN OURSELVES: UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA May 2, 2023/No Comments Depression & anxiety are common problems that can develop after trauma.  Depression ignites feelings of sadness and low mood. These Read More Load More End of Content.

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“ISLEÑA” BY RAICES THEATRE COMPANY (JUN 20-JULY 3, 2022) A ONE-WOMAN SHOW IT WAS!

I usually have a hard time enjoying a theatre production when the play relies on one individual for the acting, the movement, and the energy.  Honestly, I try to always avoid one-person productions. Why did I go to this one? The answer to the question is simple. I know the performer, I know the organization’s reputation, and I’ve enjoyed all the productions they’ve produced – and I was not disappointed. Victoria Pérez is an amazing woman. She is a woman of all seasons, demonstrating repeatedly that she earned her gifts and talents from the universe. She is for real. If you are not familiar with Victoria, she is a Theatre Director, Actor, Writer, and Playwright. Oh yes, she is also the co-founder and Artistic Director of the Raices Theatre Company; with all these roles, her human experience added to her performance as wife and mother, and by the way, she also sings and dances. What more can you ask for from this beautiful artist? She is truly enjoying her experience as a human being on this planet. She is a role model, and we can learn much from her, and I mean A LOT!  Her one-woman production, composed by Victoria and her sister, is an hour show, a show that will keep you awake, just in case, and it’s full of music, love, singing, and dancing some salsa. The play is about an individual struggling to fit in a world between Puerto Rico (Isleña) and Buffalo, a place with roots, a bilingual coqui cough in Buffalo trying to get back home, a cultural comfort zone, or a frog trying to get back to the “city of good neighbors”, a story of a confused soul searching for her permanent space – here or there? It’s a pity they missed the deadline, and we were not able to promote this product in our June issue. This is a play that needs to come back, become a traveling theatre, and perform in our Puerto Rican/Latino institutions.  Her play started in the kitchen, but it moves your imagination to travel to her island and back to Buffalo, two places dominating her journey, starting when she was just a small girl, age nine. We can go on, but the space in the Village is limited, and we need to stop here. You might miss this play, but you must reach out and get to know the wonderful work by Victoria and her theatre company, a gift to Buffalo’s Puerto Rican/Latino community — and the city of good neighbors. I will keep my eyes open for their next production. Hats off to Victoria Pérez, her sister, and her wonderful team. Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books Business Community Education Entertainment Food & Culture Health Interviews Military & Veterans Peace People Politics LATINO COLLEGE STUDENTS FACE INEQUALITY AND CULTURAL ISOLATION AT THE STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK at BUFFALO March 25, 2023/No Comments LACK OF COLLEGE SERVICES FOR LATINO STUDENTS: This is in response to a story by UB Spectrum reporter, Kayla Estrada, Read More “GETTING VERY LITTLE FOR THE WHOLE,  BUT GETTING A LOT FOR THE FEW” WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN 2023 January 25, 2023/No Comments While I might appear to be biased and selective, I strongly feel the four people in the photo are the Read More The Isaías González-Soto Branch Library (formerly Niagara Branch) is a member of the Buffalo & Erie County Public Library System December 25, 2022/No Comments When the Hispanic Heritage Council (HHC) moved to rename the Niagara Branch Library several years ago, with the support of Read More Load More End of Content.

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