Finding Passion in Face Painting: The Journey of Darlene Berrios Blair

With summer upon us, the Summer Festival Season is in full swing. Typically, at these local events, among vendors selling their food and wares, one of the more familiar sights in our local festivals would be that of face painters. These talented artists face long lines of children waiting to have their faces painted with designs that brighten up their appearances.   One of these face painters is my beloved cousin, Darlene (Berrios) Blair. Face painting is more than just an art form for Darlene—it’s a calling that found her in the most unexpected of ways. Darlene, the Upper West Side native Boricua creative force behind “Face Designs by Darlene,” began her journey into face painting not as a planned career move but as an act of familial support and community service.   Getting Started — A Sister’s Call to Service: Darlene’s foray into face painting began with a simple request from her sister, Rosa. “My sister Rosita was working at a community event with her church, the former Casa De Adoración El-Shaddai on Niagara Street, and she was going to be doing some simple face painting at the church event,” Darlene recalls. Her sister Rosa initially handled basic designs like balloons, stars, and hearts. However, as Darlene was looking to assist her sister with the event, although she was completely inexperienced in the world of face painting, she was eager to contribute effectively. Leading up to the days of the church event, Darlene did extensive research to ensure she had the right materials and skills. She purchased paints from Michaels, read the instructions meticulously, and despite her initial nerves, began painting with a line of children waiting. “I started painting at 12 PM and didn’t stop until 8:45 PM,” she says, reflecting on that first marathon session. Her dedication was clear from the outset, as she continued painting even after Rosa had finished for the day.   Discovering a Passion: The positive response from the children and their families was overwhelming. Seeing the joy her artwork brought, Darlene realized she had found her passion. Encouraged by the community and church, which even prompted her to print business cards, Darlene began to pursue face painting more seriously. Though the church eventually closed, Darlene’s commitment to face painting remained steadfast, and over the last thirteen years, she continued building a name and reputation through word of mouth, her talent leading her to notable opportunities. She has painted for the Buffalo Bills, including events for Von Miller and Dion Dawkins, and at the Michael Phelps Swim School/Friendship Village. Darlene is now considered the unofficial face painter of the Buffalo Bills, a testament to her skill and dedication.   Personal Challenges and Resilience: Darlene’s journey has not been without personal challenges. “When I lost my sister, Glenda, I wanted to put my brush down,” she shares. Despite her grief, she continued to paint, especially to honor her sister’s memory. “I had a Christmas event on December 10th, which was two days after my sister died, and I got there a little late. Once I got there, I shared the news with the lady who hired me for the event, and she asked if I was ok and all I wanted to do was paint. I wanted to paint for Glenda since she always wanted to sit in my chair.”   Connecting Through Art: Darlene’s ability to connect with children is a cornerstone of her work. She has a unique approach to making each child feel comfortable, especially those with special needs. “When I see the kids, my energy is too much. I have to wait for them to come around,” she says. By getting to their level and explaining the process, Darlene ensures each child feels at ease. For children with Autism, she takes extra care to explain each step and involve them in choosing colors, making the experience enjoyable and stress-free.   Creative Designs and Engagement: Darlene’s setup is both professional and engaging. She has a design board with 32 pictures for kids to choose from and a word board that helps her develop new ideas. “I like to do things differently, but I try to keep it simple when I paint,” she explains. This blend of creativity and simplicity allows her to cater to a wide range of preferences and keep the process smooth.   Face Designs by Darlene: A Continuing Passion: For Darlene Blair, face painting is not just a profession but a passion that found her and continues to drive her. Her journey from helping her sister at a church event to becoming a recognized face painter in Western New York for major events is a testament to her talent, dedication, and the joy she finds in bringing smiles to children’s faces.   Follow Her Journey: Her journey is a beautiful reminder that sometimes, our passions find us in the most unexpected ways, leading to fulfilling and impactful careers. As the Western New York Summer Festival season continues, and you find yourself at an event where Darlene is painting smiles on children’s faces, know that that journey started here on the lower West Side, on Niagara Street over a decade ago.  You can stay connected with Darlene’s latest works and events through her Instagram and Facebook pages “Face Designs by Darlene.”   Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports Technology Finding Passion in Face Painting: The Journey of Darlene Berrios Blair July 22, 2024/No Comments Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. 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REMEMBERING ANNA LEE

What can a well-pleated skirt suit and a can-do  attitude achieve? For my grandma G (as I affectionally called her), it meant a great deal.  Anna Lee Kelly Gagnon was born on July 14, 1933, in North Collins, to my mother’s “Aunt Vivian”. To depict her childhood as devoid of the harsh poverty that marked rural life during the Great Depression would be to overlook the essence of her character. Irish joy, rural resourcefulness, front porches, and the freshness of open air shaped her robustly. Thirty-three years after her birth, she shed the “Anna” and emerged as a pioneering woman in the Buffalo City Clerk’s Office. The magnitude of being one of the few, or perhaps the sole, female presence in a room dominated by rigid thinkers and gray suits is immense, a feeling I have also experienced. At the 1975 Erie County Bar Association Law Day Ceremonies, Grandma G, serving as Associate Court Clerk of the Criminal Records Room, was honored as the “Belle of the Ball.” She received “A Special Recognition” for her exceptional service to the legal profession since joining the Clerk’s Office in 1966. Notably, she was the first woman to be recognized in accordance with the theme. Mom mentioned she doesn’t believe Aunt Vivian (Grandma G’s mother) went to high school. What significance did that award have for the farm? As one among numerous Irish siblings, Grandma G possessed the ability to discern your strengths and weaknesses with a quick, sharp gaze from her bright blue eyes. She grasped the fragility of my Latina identity and urged me to pursue political science, instilling in me the belief that I was a critical & serious thinker from a young age. She instilled a sense of capability in me, and I know I wasn’t alone. Her resolve and self-assurance have cleared paths for many. Grandma G embodied the essence of country values, akin to a refreshing glass of ice-cold lemonade. A critical thinker, she would sit by a bible, offering a knowing wink. As I drive up from the southern towns, the moment I round that bend and the cityscape unfolds before me, I’m reminded of her and the lives of rural women throughout America. What would be the cost now for Grandma G to leave the farm and settle into the neat rows of suburban brick homes? How accessible is the urban and regional job market for rural women, and how do we support those who cannot simply pack a suitcase and leave? What measures can we take to connect them? I reflect on their access to information, opportunities, healthcare, educational facilities, and services that affirm women. I frequently contemplate how rural living contributes to the “diversity” we strive to attain—quite significantly, in my opinion.   When I failed the bar exam, Grandma G wasn’t bothered. She unquestionably anticipated that I would retake it. Over and over, until I succeeded. Presumably, she considered her own journey; she became a clerk, and two generations later, I graduated from Law School. To her, that signified progress, yet I still have a debt to repay her. This month, reflect on how you face your challenges and opportunities in comparison to your counterparts in the country. Do you approach them with equal determination? To understand their social realities better, consider reading the 2023 USDA’s “Rural America at a Glance.” If you’re among those in rural areas navigating your path, persist in your efforts. Don’t allow fatigue to dampen your aspirations. Whether you take to the actual highways or the digital ones, Buffalo’s job market awaits both in-person and online. Remember, if Grandma G could do it, so can you. Just apply some elbow grease. Why not give it a try?   Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports Technology REMEMBERING ANNA LEE July 22, 2024/No Comments Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. Read More… Read More MEET Pura Teresa Belpré y Nogueras June 6, 2024/4 Comments Today, you began with a dream and a fresh Google search. Searching for “it,” whatever “it” may be for you.… Read More MEET KELLY CAMACHO April 4, 2024/4 Comments There’s a difference when you RECKON something and when you know something. Like the difference between when you code and when… Read More Load More End of Content.

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INVESTING IN OURSELVES

A minute can be very important in re-setting us! How many minutes do we really pay attention to? Did small in-between moments slip by unnoticed? Or were minutes populated with worry and fear? Have you ever paused to ponder how a single minute holds the potential to alter the direction of your day and life? 60 seconds can be a storehouse of resilience to help you bounce back from challenges. One way we can build resilience is to attempt to avoid emotional clutter. Emotional clutter can build up like dust on furniture. We can keep emotional clutter at bay by wiping our minds clean daily. Try out this daily inventory. Use this strategy when you lose track of where your day went and fail to engage in any activities that were fun, fulfilling, or connected you to other people.  How much time did you spend during the past week on each activity? Self- Care; including nutrition, hygiene, rest etc. Communicating in person face to face with significant others? On technology not for work, business, or school such as television, computer, phone, etc. Physical activity? Spending time in nature? Hobbies or any other leisure activity? Reflecting, being still, pausing, meditating or reading? Work, business, or school? Browsing and shopping in a store or online? Sleeping or napping? Continue to inquire within:Overall, how do I feel about how I used my time? Did anything surprise me? Am I using technology in replacement of activities I used to enjoy? Can I foster more balance? What challenges are presented? How can I align with my values? List at least one small realistic change you can make beginning today.  Take note of how this change impacts you. Very often all we need is a minute to begin again and change the trajectory of our day or even week! Emotions are indeed part of the human experience, but they don’t have to rule us! I hope this technique to clear emotional clutter is helpful.   Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports Technology INVESTING IN OURSELVES July 22, 2024/No Comments Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. Read More… Read More Mindful Ways to Build Resilience Part 3 – Clarity April 4, 2024/No Comments Many factors can derail clarity and your ability to function and maintain residence at a high level.  By skillfully staying… Read More MINDFUL METHODS TO BUILD RESILIENCE – PART 2 March 4, 2024/5 Comments Where we place our attention makes a difference and can be the way to turn obstacles into success! I hope… Read More Load More End of Content.

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