INTERVIEW # 11: FEATURING LIZZY RIVERA

INTERVIEW # 11: FEATURING LIZZY RIVERA I don’t like the world of disability. No one asked but still.  I am a person with different abilities and as a child they were undiagnosed. That fact affected my learning journey immensely. Some of my siblings have different abilities (the term I prefer) and face varying health challenges, mine being the absolute least.  My family is a family of overcomers, but my learning journey was not an easy one.  As a child I struggled to learn on paper, I could hear anything you said, but if you gave it to me on paper, you lost me. I remember feeling bright, but not being able to transfer that intelligence to paper. I will never forget what it feels like to sit in a class of your peers and be nervous to be called on. It’s terrifying, and I lived that terror every day in elementary school. It gives you shivers all the way to your boots. And lately being a kid is hard enough.  Some Adults like Lizzy Rivera get it. Lizzy is an advocate for families whose members have different abilities, the human embodiment of compassion. She is existing in a state of empathy and her journey and path reflect an infinite determination to succeed. When I met her, I felt so relieved, so grateful that she had chosen to fight for children in our community. She leads a path she walked, being a mother, whose children were educated in public schools.  Born in Puerto Rico and educated across oceans, her sense of feminism is rooted in her mother’s lessons. She committed to helping improve systems and lifelong learning (always a sign of intelligence in my opinion). She’s currently enrolled in a School Psychology program to obtain initial certification, after graduating Summa Cum Laude from SUNY Empire State College with a B.A. in Psychology – as a full-time mom. As a people, Latinos are resilient and self-reliant.  Sometimes those resiliencies lead us to overlook the times we need help or be hesitant to ask for it. Lizzy’s quote: “A person also needs intrinsic or extrinsic motivation to work towards those goals. This is where the community comes into play to remove systematic barriers of ableism, sexism, colorism, and xenophobia that discourage individuals from creating goals and prevents them from seeing themselves in positions that they can achieve to reach their full potential.” Lizzy Rivera is an advocate fighting ableism and if you read her interview, you will learn how and why. Ableism is defined as discrimination in favor of able-bodied people.  According to the Dept of Education In 2018, 32% of the children diagnosed with a disability in New York State identified as Hispanic and or Latino. THE INTERVIEW: Where were you raised, and what were the values taught in your home? My story started in Bayamon, Puerto Rico, with family roots from Barranquitas, PR.   Where were you raised, and what were the values taught in your home? My story started in Bayamon, Puerto Rico, with family roots from Barranquitas, PR. Since my family was from el campo, we had strong family ties and conservative values. My mother, Neida Fonseca, raised me to be independent, resilient, and accept change as it comes. Education was important, and she had high expectations of my brother and sister to graduate college, something she always dreamed of doing. What was your experience as a student?  The journey from Puerto Rico to Buffalo happened right before my Quinceanera. My brother was sent the previous year to stay with my aunt Gladys Santiago to see if he liked the school system, and since he had a good experience, we came to Buffalo. I was not in full agreement with the move since this was before the time of cell phones. I knew I would lose the connection with friends, novios (lol), and most importantly, my extended family. My family was afraid of “las nuevas juntillas” (negative peer influence) and thought it would be best to advocate for high school placement in a monolingual school with ENL support (Bennett High). It was unheard, to take ENL services outside a Bilingual school. Grover Cleveland High was the only option if you needed support in English for your classes. R&B, Reggae, and HipHop became my teachers of acculturation into the new environment. I also had a best friend named Fatima from Mali that served as a guide. She had gone through the same experience years earlier when she arrived in Buffalo. I had amazing teachers and others like the English teacher that told me, “Don’t take the Regents, you will not pass.” Well, don’t tell a Latina she can’t do something; she may just prove you wrong! I was in the top 20 of my graduating class with a Regents diploma of almost 300 students at the time attending Bennett High. At the time, Bennett High offered an International Program that was progressive, offering multiple languages like Spanish, French, Italian, Latin, and Chinese. The Latinx population was very small, and to make our little Borinquen, we created a Multicultural Club that highlighted the school’s cultural diversity. During one of the multicultural assemblies, our group danced to “el baile de perrito” that none of us ever forgot. Also, I would sneak go after school to Grover to meet my cousin and dance for their salsa band. These experiences served as a basis for my passion for working with people from multicultural and linguistic backgrounds. When did you start working and what was your first or favorite job? I started working in Buffalo as a cashier on the old Tops on Niagara Street. Many around my age group have fond memories of this supermarket as it was the unofficial hangout for many in the Westside of Buffalo. I currently work for the Buffalo Public Schools in the Special Education Department as a Spanish-speaking Community Education Leader and for the Parent Network of WNY as a family support specialist for parents that have

INTERVIEW # 11: FEATURING LIZZY RIVERA Read More »

THE PROMISE

Today, Tino and I got together with Jaime Cueva, a longtime friend, and colleague. We were UB students during the 60s, involved in trying to make things right and just in the world. We talked about our community involvement, we talked about our work in the migrant camps in North Collins, Hamburg, and Dunkirk, and how PODER was able to convince some to pursue an education. Tino remembered the days he worked at the Bethlehem  Plant before he got the opportunity to attend UB. He talked about WBFO-FM and the 4 hours of Spanish programming which disappeared without anyone putting up a protest. We gossiped about Pucho Olivencia Sr., Carmen Rodriguez, Raul González, Ramon Gallardo, Esaias González, Confessor Cruz, and Carlos Olivencia, especially how he confronted PODER (Alberto O. Cappas) to make sure that we also advocated for and recruited Buffalo Puerto Rican students. We talked about many things, we covered the difference between politics on the East Side and the Lower West Side. We talked about the mindset of yesterday in comparison to today. We concluded that yesterday’s students were a revolutionary generation. Today, unfortunately, we have a commercialized generation. The gossip between these old men came to an end. Jaime looked at his watch and said it was time to leave. Jaime and I left a good tip, but Tino thought it was too much. We explained that we like walking into our favorite restaurant and getting a smile the minute that we walk in, and even a complimentary glass of red wine. Jaime and I concluded that Tino must get a lot of angry faces when he walks into his favorite places. In the end, we all went our separate ways until we save enough money to have our next reunion. Jaime lives in Miami, Florida, Tino in Williamsville, and Alberto on the lower west side. Uno de Ecuador, el otro de Mexico, y yo de Puerto Rico, bochinchando en Towne Restaurant, en Español, en ingle, y en Spanglish.  Note: We covered so many topics that we promised to communicate with each other and try to put a book together, to document the hidden history of Buffalo’s Puerto Rican/Latino community. Stay tuned until these old men get together for bochinche part 2. Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books Business Community Education Entertainment Food & Culture Health Interviews Military & Veterans Peace People Politics LATINO COLLEGE STUDENTS FACE INEQUALITY AND CULTURAL ISOLATION AT THE STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK at BUFFALO March 25, 2023/No Comments LACK OF COLLEGE SERVICES FOR LATINO STUDENTS: This is in response to a story by UB Spectrum reporter, Kayla Estrada, Read More “GETTING VERY LITTLE FOR THE WHOLE,  BUT GETTING A LOT FOR THE FEW” WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN 2023 January 25, 2023/No Comments While I might appear to be biased and selective, I strongly feel the four people in the photo are the Read More The Isaías González-Soto Branch Library (formerly Niagara Branch) is a member of the Buffalo & Erie County Public Library System December 25, 2022/No Comments When the Hispanic Heritage Council (HHC) moved to rename the Niagara Branch Library several years ago, with the support of Read More Load More End of Content.

THE PROMISE Read More »

ELEVEN TERMS AFFECTING OUR LIVES

ELEVEN TERMS AFFECTING OUR LIVES This is a list of some of the terms active in the political world. I chose them randomly in hopes that it clears the air on some political jargon that you come across without giving any thought to their origin. This is a brief overview; go online, look them up, and learn more about our political world. Demagogue – This is when a political leader seeks support without using rational judgment but rather appeals to popular desires and prejudices. Donald Trump is a classic example of this practice.  Filibuster: In legislative practice, the parliamentary tactic used in the United States Senate by a minority of the senators-sometimes even a single senator-to delay or prevent parliamentary action by talking so long that the majority either grants concessions or withdraws the bill. For example, presently, this is the practice the Republicans will use to put a stop to the “Voting Right Bill” sponsored by the Democrats. Gaffe: An unintentional act or remark causing embarrassment to its originator; a blunder. Gerrymandering – Gerrymandering is a practice intended to establish an unfair political advantage for a particular party or group by manipulating the boundaries of electoral districts. In Buffalo, Puerto Ricans/Latinos are victims of this practice. G.O.P.  – This is an acronym for Grand Old Party, referring to the Republican Party. Hard money: Used in conjunction with federal elections. These funds must be raised in accordance with the regulations set out by the FEC. Hard money is not able to be donated by unions or corporations directly but has to come from individuals. A corporation can, however, make contributions through political action committees. As of 2012, an individual may only donate a maximum of $2,700 USD. Hard money may be spent on political adverts and campaigns for a particular candidate. Purple state: Another term for a swing state. A state which could vote Democratic (blue) or Republican (red). SuperPAC – An independent political action committee that may raise unlimited sums of money from corporations, unions, and individuals but is not permitted to contribute to or coordinate directly with parties or candidates. Xenophobia/Xenophobic — An intense or irrational dislike or fear of people from other countries and cultures. Wedge issue:  a political issue that divides a candidate’s supporters or the members of a party. Political campaigns use wedge issues to soften tension within a targeted population. A wedge issue may often be a point of internal dissent within an opposing party, which that party attempts to suppress or ignore discussion because it divides “the base”. Wonk: An elected official who takes an enthusiastic or excessive interest in the specialized details of a particular subject or field, especially political policy. Sources: https://www.bbc.com/news/election-us-2016-37385625 https://jenebaspeaks.com/2016/10/politics-for-dummies-top-75-political-terms-you-should-know/ https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/euphemism Read More From This Writer All Post Business Culture Entertainment Food Government Health Interviews Lower West Side Business & Economic Development Medical Military & Veterans Our Community Peace People Sports ELEVEN TERMS AFFECTING OUR LIVES September 24, 2021/No Comments POST TITLE (CAPITAL) Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus Read More LEFT BEHIND July 24, 2021/No Comments LEFT BEHIND This life  ain’t a treat  if you trick me into selling my soul  of a woman in order  Read More sPeCiAL ApRiL – CeLeBrAtInG pOeTrY April 24, 2021/No Comments sPeCiAL ApRiL – CeLeBrAtInG pOeTrY April marks the celebration of poets and poetry being recognized as National Poetry Month celebrating Read More Load More End of Content.

ELEVEN TERMS AFFECTING OUR LIVES Read More »

Scroll to Top