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Tears Are for the Living Part 1

I often highlight the Uncrowned Queens & Kings within our Community. They are typically with us here on Earth, among the living. The recent transitions of two individuals from the physical to the spiritual realm on June 4th have profoundly affected our interconnected community, with some impacts still unknown. Uncrowned Queen SaSeongNim Nancy Maria Fernandez, a 9th Degree Black Belt in Taekwondo, is the first Boricua woman to attain this level of recognition. Within our Jami Masjid Community of students, it was shared that she embraced Islam on July 19th, 2013, finding numerous similarities between the principles of Taekwondo and Islam, thereby also becoming the first Muslimah to reach this rank. Throughout her years teaching in Buffalo’s community centers, her latest Tiger TKD classes were held at PUSH Buffalo & Jami Masjid to serve both the East and West Sides. As her health declined, she received assistance from her cherished companion, Boo Sabumnim Smith, and her beloved only son, Sabumnim Ogbe Naheem Shabazz Fernandez. SaSeongNim Fernandez came highly recommended by my dear friend, George Nash. She was his babysitter during his childhood. He assured me that I should have her teach my son because of her firm yet loving approach. I can affirm that all who attended her classes, and whose children were under her tutelage, would agree. When my son Asheem and I started classes at Jami last fall, it felt as though I had known her forever, despite most of our interactions happening on Facebook over the past three years. I recall her saying, “Well, it took you long enough to bring him!” She had a unique way of conveying that you were wasting her time while also expressing her love. You learned to adjust your behavior without feeling bad or guilty. She wasn’t interested in excuses, only in seeing a change in your actions—like attending class, arriving on time, and not delivering lazy kicks or punches. Reflecting on her life as a mother of three, with grandchildren, and the dedication required to reach the status of a Taekwondo Grandmaster, it’s evident that her teaching style is deserving of immense respect. The thought of her competing with men because no woman matched her level truly crowns her as a Shero in my eyes, filled with tears. After class or during phone conversations, SaSeongNim would open up about her personal life, and I would reciprocate by sharing mine. Now, I cherish the pearls of wisdom she imparted to me over the past months. Her words echo in my mind: “I don’t have a lot of time to waste!” Initially, I believed she meant we should focus more in class. It became clear her health was failing, but I couldn’t accept that she was hinting at her imminent departure. During her final classes at Jami, she arrived with a large plug-in oxygen tank, taking a seat to direct us. Subsequently, she phoned me to discuss creating a flyer for the upcoming tournament/competition, emphasizing the inclusion of PUSH BUFFALO & JAMI MASJID as sponsors. I presented it to her at her bedside during our farewell. I expressed to her my desire to make her proud. I believe we all share this aspiration. I distributed the flyer among her children, trusting that our Taekwondo community and everyone who knew her will ensure this tournament is unforgettable or remembered.  — ÀSÉ. Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports Technology Tears Are for the Living July 22, 2024/No Comments Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. Read More… Read More Fragrance Harris-Stanfield IN THE MIDST OF STRUGGLE June 6, 2024/No Comments Residents of Buffalo, NY, including myself, have been profoundly affected by the events of May 14, 2022. I still find… Read More OUR MOMMIE VILLAGE April 4, 2024/6 Comments March was Women’s History Month and who better to shine the spotlight on other than the Founder, Shyana Broughton, the… Read More Load More End of Content.

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MEET Pura Teresa Belpré y Nogueras

Today, you began with a dream and a fresh Google search. Searching for “it,” whatever “it” may be for you. At least you can claim you pursued “it”… your own version of “it.” But you must try “it” and invest in “it.” And you’re more likely to do so, as Latinos are 33% more inclined to purchase products advertised on social media compared to 20% of non-Latinos. Latinos share common platforms, but the way we define success is as diverse as our Amazon lists. Whether your daily goal is a dryer full of matching socks and you are one of the 58% of Latinos watching YouTube or you are one of the 60% of us on Facebook, boarding the perfectly timed departure flight, your scrolling in between means something. Despite rebrands, the Pew Research Center reports that 73% of Latino adults aged 18 to 49 get their news via digital devices, with 27% favoring social media specifically. Among Latinos over 50, 43% prefer digital devices, and 5% social media. This indicates that your political views, perhaps influenced by a cousin’s social media posts or other sources, significantly affect your Latina vote. Your voice and your vote are important. It’s not just a phrase; it’s a reality. Over 1 in 10 voters this November (11%) are expected to be Latino, a 20.5% increase from 2016, according to NALEO. That’s a powerful voice, and it belongs to you. Data is universally influenced by one thing: your innate curiosity, leading you to the search bar If you are Latino, those search results will undoubtedly shape election results, as 36% of Latinos consider social media their primary news source. And our news informs our votes. Voting means you can have a say in the places that mean something. Like the library, and Pura Teresa Belpré y Nogueras, the first Puerto Rican librarian of the New York Public Library and author of the first bilingual book circulated in mainstream publication titled “Perez and Martinez,” who revolutionized library science utilizing her life experience to craft welcoming literacy spaces for thousands of Puerto Rican (from 1921 – 1943), would appreciate your participation. At least I’m betting on it. Genius, artist, poet, a prolific writer of inclusive and transformative children’s literature and civic American hero.Pura provides our #latinaherstory feature quote.”To appreciate the present, one must have a knowledge of the past…to know where we go, we must know from where we came…”  Born in 1899, approximately 95 years before the first smartphone was sold, the need for bilingual communications has only increased, as in our connectivity to each other in different countries and places. And while our libraries, voting status, future diets, puppies, and home improvements may look different month to month thanks to algorithms, our individual characters shine through. For Pura, as a college student of UPR Rio Piedras, she bet on New York and a career in public service, attending the Library School of the New York Public Library. No matter how many times your major, career, and life goals change, the doers in the arena leave their mark on the world. Like Pura and other civic pioneers who have paved the way for meaningful participation in civic and public spaces, take a moment to search “register to vote” online, and if you haven’t yet, consider making that your priority today. May is a month of abundance. Be generous to yourself and your phrase your google search terms well. And if you are registered, follow your local parties on social media. Increasingly our political leaders are altering the tune of their messages to echo within social media platforms and meet us where we are at. Online. It’s not enough to just show up; engagement is key. Respond to them, stay informed. The journey of a voter doesn’t stop at registration; it starts there. Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports Technology MEET Pura Teresa Belpré y Nogueras June 6, 2024/No CommentsRead More MEET KELLY CAMACHO April 4, 2024/1 Comment There’s a difference when you RECKON something and when you know something. Like the difference between when you code and when… Read More Latina HerStory March 4, 2024/7 Comments Aileen Marti , Manager, Older Adult Program WS Community Services “Projections” are defined as forecasts of a future situation, like… Read More Load More End of Content.

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POR LA PAZ

El mundo esta revuelto. Guerras, conflictos, hambre y desplazamiento de los pueblos son realidades brutales. Todos queremos lo mismo: paz! Hago un llamado a la paz y a un compromiso por ella. La paz empieza conmigo y contigo como individuos y miembros de las diversas comunidades que nos identifican. Te invito hoy a participar en la edificacion de tu persona como un agente de paz, y de cambio. Toma un momento y reflexiona en como pudieses contribuir a tu paz interna, individual para que esta sea tu guia. Dedico esta columna a los estudiantes de Columbia University en la Cuidad de Nueva York quienes protestan pacificamente y constitucionalmente sin promover odio, ni miedo sino por el derecho que todos temenos a protestar pacificamente bajo la constitucion de los Estados Unidos. A ellos y ellas les dedico este poema de Julia de Burgos:   Será presente en ti tu manantial. Estarás en las ramas del universo entero. Déjame que te cante como cuando eras mía en la llovizna fresca del primer aguacero. Tu mano en semi-luna, en semi-sol y en todo se refugiaba núbil, sobre la mano mía. Porque yo te cuidaba, hermanita silvestre y sabes que lloraba en tus claras mejillas. Será presente en ti tu manantial sin sombras. Estarás en las ramas del universo entero. Pero ¿dónde dejaste tu paz? « En cada herida» me contestan tus ojos anegados por dentro. Déjame que te cante como cuando eras mía, hermanita silvestre, como cuando trepamos el astro que salía a dormir soledades entre nuestras pupilas destiladas de amor. Déjame que te cante como cuando eras mía, y era paz el silencio de mi profunda ola, y era paz la distancia de tu nombre y mi nombre y era paz el sollozo de la muerte que espera. Será presente en ti tu manantial sin sombras… Estarás en las ramas del universo mío y todas las estrellas se bajarán cantando la canción del espacio refugiada en un río. Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Column Community Community News Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Media Military & Veterans Music Peace People Politics Sports Technology POR LA PAZ June 6, 2024/No Comments Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo. Read More… Read More COMBATIENDO LA TRATA DE PERSONAS April 4, 2024/1 Comment Mis mas sincero respeto a la comunidad medica, social, legal y servicios de inteligencia quienes combaten la trata de personas.  La… Read More Mes de la Mujer: Celebrando logros March 5, 2024/2 Comments Marzo llego, y en el celebramos las contribuciones de la mujer! En este mes celebro el trabajo arduo y ejemplar… Read More Load More End of Content.

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