Author name: Buffalo Latino Village

“PULLING THE RACE CARD”, LITERALLY

“PULLING THE RACE CARD”, LITERALLY As we celebrate Black History Month, I wanted to feature my Sisters Sarah Pearson Collins and Kezia Pearson. These two lovely ladies have created a card game whereby people come together and discuss the issue of race.  We first met when we did a local pitch contest to help fund our small businesses in September 2021. They were vying for funds to help print their card deck – Pulling the Race Card. They won 1st place!! They had already presented the game to the Buffalo, New York Community by holding special events. I, of course, attended the very next event that they hosted after the pitch contest.  I really did not know what to expect. But when we sat there and received instructions on how to move forward in the game, I was glad to know that it was a safe space and that we could say what needs to be said without mincing words in a respectful manner. We sat at a table with people we didn’t know or know well. We each received cards that were True or Not True. The speaker pulled a card and the individuals in the group decide if it’s true or an assigned stereotype. Then discussion about the card occurs. People share their thoughts or experiences with what the speaker said and then they can decide to change their initial response. Sarah Pearson Collins and Kezia Pearson Two Sisters on the way to Shark Tank? It was a great experience and I really felt like I was heard by people that didn’t look like myself or experience the things indigenous and people of color experience. And I thought that that was the most important part. My first thought was that these individuals came to the event voluntarily.  They can be a vessel to share our experiences even if they don’t fully understand. They can speak out against -isms that continue to plague our community – especially racism. Some even bought the cards while there so that was further encouragement the discussion would not end at the venue. If you ever have a chance to make it to one of these events, please do not hesitate! You can also invite them to come to a community center, classroom, or workspace near you! There’s so much that can be transformed through honest dialogue about race. Thank you, Sarah and Kezia for bringing this much-needed educational card game and events to our community. Next up: Worldwide!  You can follow them to buy the cards and follow them on Facebook at Pulling The Race Card; Instagram @pullingtheracecardgame; and TikTok @pullingtheracecard Read More From This Writer All Post Food Health Interviews Lower West Side Business & Economic Development People “PULLING THE RACE CARD”, LITERALLY February 13, 2023/No Comments POST TITLE (CAPITAL) Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus Read More REDEMPTION STORIES: TOMMY WALKER January 13, 2023/No Comments REDEMPTION STORIES: TOMMY WALKER In preparing to write the first article of 2023, I listened to Bob Marley’s Redemption Song. Read More “PADRINO — GODFATHER” December 13, 2022/No Comments “PADRINO — GODFATHER” I struggled to connect with the intended Community Spotlight. And that’s ok. It’s a busy time of Read More Load More End of Content.

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INTERVIEW #26 : FEATURING DORCAS CALDERON 

Black joy can be served with frijoles, seasoned with Sazon, and fried twice until it floats the right way in the oil. In Puerto Rico, joy is food and flavors- like the three flavors that make up the soul. And since Puerto Ricans are so deeply food oriented, they often use flavors as a parallel for the ocio-cultural construction of race and feelings and just about everything else for that matter. Dorcas Calderon is Puerto Rican aka 3 different flavors of joy: Black, Taina, and Spanish. Plus 5 children and grandchildren and-a tool belt full of skills – una diva Campesina! A woman whose knowledge spans both rural and urban environments and infrastructures- biology and AI- and wifehood.  A woman of contradictions with the flavor of high glam Latina CEO and a construction boss. She never dreamed of her current life. Once, a feminine single mother encouraged her husband into the construction business. Years later, she now runs her own company: The first Latina-owned MWBE-certified construction company in Monroe County, New York. “Because everything in life changes,” She speaks many languages, streaming in between thoughts, webpage tabs, and content areas, and adjusting her intonation/verbiage to her audience. Socially, emotionally, politically, and intelligent she’s a thriver (I’ve abandoned the word survivor this year). Born in Puerto Rico, living in Rochester, a sometimes Buffalonian specifically-I’d pick her for a hitter any day. And now I’m volunteering-coaching T-ball this year. Her favorite school? Herman Badillo PS 76. Named after the first Puerto Rican congressman and mayoral candidate in a major city (New York City). Well-versed in our history, Dorcas says we all know about Puerto Rico’s black joy in Spanish. She’s right. Second, to knowledge there is silence. We don’t talk about blackness and during Black History month; I ask Why not? Ironically, race in the Caribbean was a topic of high discussion in Europe. Policies changing to match European fancy. The first African arrived with Ponce de Leon as a free man in 1509. 150 years later the Spanish offered freedom and land to Africans from non-Spanish colonies for emigrating. Then another 100 years later reversing and encouraged Europeans and specifically their slaves to move to Puerto Rico. Most slaves who were kidnapped and trafficked to Puerto Rico were from the gold coast- Many were Yoruba, Ashanti, Fon, Igbo, and Bantu. Did you know the Spanish Crown referred to Blackness as a defect? Allowing highborn “mulatto” Spanish subjects to apply and pay to be deemed legally white? My people were Bantu. On the 1872 slave census, my great-grandmother was recorded, 13, Elvira, daughter of Felipa, a Slave. Don Maximiliano Rivera- her owner’s name- the pain of generations in one name. We made it -out of the sugar cane field-No matter that her master set the price for her freedom. She paid for it.  Dorcas ancestors faced the same adversities and generations later there are still serious challenges for Latinas in Business; they are no longer owned but owners. Programs like the MWBE seek to acknowledge and mitigate the impacts of lasting economic discrimination.  A designation, but one that reminds us that “we” need to keep fighting for those who aren’t in the room and be authentic about why they weren’t in the first place.  And in case you need the language for future advocacy specifically within our community – I usually tend to phrase the question “well why are there no Afro-Latinas here?” “Has the question been examined using the lens of an afro Latina? “Everyone who has been asked to speak is white presenting.” “Why are there no black professionals included here” and so on. Dorcas says to be confident no matter, even if you’re the only woman in the room, and I’m going to remember that piece of #latinaherstory and Elivira and Felipa and the feeling of the Puerto Rican Sun.  THE INTERVIEW  — Who are you?  My birth name is Dorcas Calderon, from Puerto Rico, and mother of 5. A proud marine mom, and a grandmother of two, soon-to-be three. I am a serial entrepreneur, having multiple businesses.  I have a brother and 2 sisters.  There was an emphasis on the importance of education in my home. Growing up with my mom was very focused on education. As a child I was quiet. We spent family time together. I enjoyed being with my family all together at home. To me, family is number one and I am trying to maintain that tradition which is hard in this generation. What is the name of your business? The main company is Dorcas Construction Company. I am proud of the construction field that I am in. The second is Travel on Faith, a travel company. I have Tabitha Design, a shirt company, I design shirts and hats. Another is in the planning stages.  I wanted to implement my name because it’s original to me and it’s rare. I love it and I feel like it’s perfect. I chose Travel on Faith because as a Christian woman, faith is important, and traveling is a theme for me. Tabitha is the Greek version of Dorcas, I named it Tabitha Design.  What was your experience as a student?  My journey was different from any other student’s. I was a straight-A student throughout 11th grade; during high school I became pregnant. I attended young mothers while pregnant. The women there were not motivated the way I felt I was, so I challenged the GED. As a young mother, I dedicated myself to my children  and was a stay-at-home mom. In my mid 20’s, with all the kids in school, I decided to invest in myself again and go to college. I first studied accounting (Community College), then studied to become a medical secretary. I was worked as a medical secretary when I learned of the opportunity to become a clerk in Rochester Schools, and be closer to my children plus get better benefits. I worked for the school district as an Office Clerk III Bilingual.

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UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA

No human is free from trauma.  Whether you experience it directly, observe it happening now, or on television; we’ve all greeted trauma in one form or another.  As discussed in previous editions on this topic; there remains a lot of variability in how one responds or reacts to such an event. Everyone is most capable of addressing and thus healing trauma from a calm and controlled stance.  When in a state of crisis or traumatic memory, we are highly emotional and charged and are at risk of experiencing a blank mind.  When this occurs, take your time and practice getting in touch with your breath to relieve your overwhelm. No human is free from trauma.  Whether you experience it directly, observe it happening now, or on television; we’ve all greeted trauma in one form or another. Hope resides in the reality that healing and recovery are possible! As discussed in previous editions on this topic; there remains a lot of variability in how one responds or reacts to such an event. Everyone is most capable of addressing and thus healing trauma from a calm and controlled stance.  When in a state of crisis or traumatic memory, we are highly emotional and charged and are at risk of experiencing a blank mind.  When this occurs, take your time and practice getting in touch with your breathing to relieve your overwhelm.  Focusing on heart-filled thoughts and escapades will lead you to the road of healing. Without a doubt healing from trauma can cause strong adverse emotions, painful flashbacks, and an array of uncomfortable symptoms. These moments are coaching you to take a break from this endeavor, by taking a walk, meditating, or talking to someone you trust. Perhaps one would benefit from working with a professional mental health counselor. These moments are signals that an alteration in how you should proceed is warranted. Trust that you are in the best position to mark your pace in this work.  Note that our thoughts, behavior patterns, and symptoms will be changed with time. Take a break of course but keep returning to heal your soul and life. Keep working with those exercises and strategies that help you in moving through pain and return ’you’ to yourself. There is a widespread impact of trauma on our bodies, mental health, and ‘our’ brains. Trauma changes lives. Healing begins when we ignite the endeavors to heal. Next edition we will tackle a common symptom of traumatic injury: anxiety.   Read More From This Writer All Post Art Books & Poems Business Community Education Entertainment español Food & Culture Health Interviews Military & Veterans Peace People Politics CALL FOR ARTISTS! July 5, 2023/No CommentsRead More UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA June 5, 2023/No Comments In contemporary society, we hear the term PTSD for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder very often. This is the new buzzword or Read More INVESTING IN OURSELVES: UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA May 2, 2023/No Comments Depression & anxiety are common problems that can develop after trauma.  Depression ignites feelings of sadness and low mood. These Read More Load More End of Content.

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